After some time, learn that heroes are people who did what was necessary to facing the consequences. You learn that patience requires much practice. Discover that sometimes the person you expect to kick you when you fall is one of the few that help you get up.After awhile, you learn the difference, the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love does not mean leaning and company does not always mean security.After awhile, you learn that life has value and that you have value of life!